It was several years before Andrea Haberman\u2019s purse was returned to her family. It took a few more years before her father, Gordon, was willing to go through what was in the purse inside an evidence bag he was given by the New York City police department. He described his reaction to the purse as \u201cvery visceral.\u201d<\/p>\n
On the other hand, for weeks after Sept. 11, 2001, Haberman kept calling his daughter\u2019s cell phone number. No one answered. \u201cYou\u2019re asking me why I would call that,\u201d Haberman said to Mike Gousha during an intense, somber \u201cOn the Issues\u201d program in Eckstein Hall\u2019s Appellate Courtroom on Tuesday. \u201cIt was a connection to her.\u201d<\/p>\n
As the tenth anniversary of the death of Andrea Haberman and nearly 3,000 other people in the attacks of Sept. 11 arrives, Andrea\u2019s family and friends remain deeply committed to keeping alive their connection to the 25-year-old daughter, sister, fianc\u00e9, and friend who was just hours into her first trip to New York.<\/p>\n
Andrea Haberman grew up near West Bend. She was a Chicago-based employee of Carr Futures, a brokerage firm, when she was sent to New York for a business meeting in the Carr offices in the north tower of the World Trade Center. She was excited about her upcoming marriage to Al Kolodzik, who she met when they were students at St. Norbert College, near Green Bay.<\/p>\n
When the large jet seized by terrorists crashed into the north tower, there were people from the 91st story on down who survived, but everyone from the 92nd floor on up died. The Carr offices \u2013 and Andrea at that moment \u2013 were on the 92nd floor. Within a short time, a second jet hit the south tower, another crashed into the Pentagon in Washington, D.C., and a fourth crashed into a field in Pennsylvania after passengers foiled it from reaching Washington.<\/p>\n
The story of Andrea and her family is told eloquently in a new book, Just a Few Sleeps Away, by Milwaukee writer Mike Nichols. The Milwaukee Journal Sentinel is running eight excerpts from the book this week. For more information on the book click here <\/a>and for the newspaper series, click here<\/a>. The conversation between Gordon Haberman and Gousha can be viewed here<\/a>.<\/p>\n The family\u2019s story has decidedly positive sides to it, Gordon Haberman told Gousha, the Law School\u2019s distinguished fellow in law and public policy, and an audience of about 175. The positive sides include people who stepped forward to assist the Habermans who Gordon called angels on earth. They include the close-knit and supportive network the Habermans have become involved with, all members of families of those who died in the Sept. 11 attacks or who died in other major airline terrorist attacks. They include a large number of people in New York who have become like family members to the Habermans, supporting them during the extensive amounts of time they have spent in the area. And they include members of the American military, many of whom, Gordon said, \u201cdied somehow in the name of my daughter.\u201d He asked, \u201cWhere do we get such men?\u201d<\/p>\n But overall, he said, \u201cThere is no sugar coating 9\/11.\u201d<\/p>\n The father said he has spent large amounts of time and energy trying to find out everything he could about the attacks and the people who were behind them. He has travelled to the American military prison in Guantanamo, attended trials of terrorists, and been part of sessions of the commission that investigated the 9-11 attacks. \u201cI don\u2019t try to understand so much anymore why they do what they do,\u201d he said of terrorists. \u201cBut I do know we have to be vigilant.\u201d<\/p>\n He and his family are obviously changed. Life does not just simply resume in the aftermath of such a tragedy. But, he said, the family wants to act constructively. \u201cAnger, I think, is one of those emotions that stifles intelligence quickly,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n The family has become active in charitable efforts related to what they have gone through. Last year, Gordon finally\u00a0examined what was in the evidence bag, including Andrea\u2019s purse, the temporary World Trade Center ID badge she was issued just minutes before the attack, and the mangled cell phone he tried to call so often. The purse is being donated to a museum exhibit about the attacks. And on Sunday, Sept. 11, 2011, family members will take part in memorial tributes at the site of the World Trade Center and in the northern Manhattan neighborhood of Inwood, a community that lost more than 20 people in the attacks and then, among other things, embraced the Haberman family when it was in need of help. 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