{"id":8559,"date":"2010-01-14T14:49:57","date_gmt":"2010-01-14T19:49:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/law.marquette.edu\/facultyblog\/?p=8559"},"modified":"2010-01-14T14:49:57","modified_gmt":"2010-01-14T19:49:57","slug":"can-guys-teach-gender","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/law.marquette.edu\/facultyblog\/2010\/01\/can-guys-teach-gender\/","title":{"rendered":"Can Guys Teach Gender?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yes . . . and they should! Coming back from the works-in-progress conference this past November at Harvard, one of the most interesting conversations was a late-night one between several professors \u2014 men and women \u2014 about teaching gender in a negotiation class. Now that the new semester is starting up, I wanted to bring this topic up again.<\/p>\n

As others have noted to me, the vast majority of gender\u00a0and negotiation research, and public presentations on gender, tend to be by women. Debbie Kolb would point out that everyone has gender \u2014 not just women \u2014 and yet there is clearly something about teaching gender that make at least some male professors uncomfortable. And, don\u2019t get me wrong, it\u2019s not for lack of thinking it\u2019s important; it\u2019s more that they don\u2019t want to be patronizing or make the situation worse by raising stereotypes that they themselves do not believe in. At least one male professor hoped that by avoiding teaching gender, and teaching general negotiation effectiveness, everyone would get the message that people should not be defined by their gender. But, as he noted, that does not, in the end, necessarily serve either the male or female students in our negotiation classes.\u00a0 <\/p>\n

So . . . I would argue that we need to teach gender differences \u2013 or perceived gender differences and the stereotype problems that occur \u2014 for two reasons. First, only by raising awareness of the false and problematic issues faced by women professionals (often called the likeability v. competence dichotomy<\/a>) can we hope to change the minds of the men and women who make these assumptions. For example, as I gathered data on last year\u2019s presidential election, I did not\u00a0believe that gender really played a role in media coverage. But, when faced with the overwhelming evidence of some truly horrid coverage, I became much more aware of how the media covers women in leadership roles and now watch more carefully what is said about women leaders. For example, last fall a political commentator noted, while attacking the Democratic position on health care, that he would not want to marry Nancy Pelosi. Are you kidding me? Why would I care and why is that relevant? I don\u2019t recall that actually being a question asked about Tip O\u2019Neill!<\/p>\n

Professors need to highlight these issues and raise awareness. We also need to give women the tools to deal with these stereotypes until they are reduced. When women are negotiating, there are some clear strategies that researchers have found that are more successful. As explained in more depth in articles I have written with\u00a0colleagues<\/a>, women should do three things: (1) when possible, frame the negotiation as one that is on behalf of others \u2014 your client, your team, your department, your company; (2) be sure to highlight your role or profession as a lawyer so that this identity \u2014 that of a lawyer \u2014 is more salient than any other identity; and (3)\u00a0be sure to use the high status of a lawyer —\u00a0that status\u00a0and the\u00a0perceived negotiation effectiveness\u00a0assosicated with\u00a0that status should permit you to be assertive without suffering backlash.<\/p>\n

Now is it\u00a0ridiculous in part to be arguing that we, women, should work within the core stereotype as opposed to breaking it down? Absolutely. Are we serving our students by only giving advice to fight stereotypes versus adapting until they are broken down? No. And both male and female negotiation professors need to feel comfortable doing this.<\/p>\n

Cross posted at Indisputably.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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