What Mediation Can Teach You for the Campaign Trail
I am linking here to a great post from Vicky Pynchon on how her mediation training helped her when she was canvassing for Barack Obama on Monday in Nevada. It is truly lovely — great story and great lessons.
What did I learn on the campaign trail? Other than breaking a lifetime phobia of the cold call I re-learned what I already knew from my mediation training and experience:
- share stories (not opinions)
- look for similarities rather than differences
- listen with a compassionate heart
- remember that behind every accusation and stated fear is a plea for help
- create/expand common ground
- be respectful of other people’s point of view
- assist people in making new or different decisions only when they ask for it
All good advice as well for the next administration!
Cross posted at Indisputably.