Living in Flyover Country

There is nothing like traveling to an international law conference in New York City to be reminded of the fact that Milwaukee is in flyover country. As in the place where most East Coasters might stop on their way out west or perhaps have been once or twice to visit friends. It particularly struck me this time — perhaps it was the number of times I needed to explain to the international law professors from other countries where Milwaukee was located or, more likely, the piercing question from no doubt a well-meaning colleague — you still live in Milwaukee, are you happy there? — that stuck in my craw. After all, I visit New York all the time. I live there for the month of August in my grandmother’s beach house. I married a New Yorker. If I was going to be offended, one would have imagined it would have happened long ago.  But no, it was really this visit, this time.

So . . . it struck me that at least some New Yorkers are as provincial as the Milwaukeeans who assume NYC is horrific and would never visit. I felt like standing on the table and announcing: “Hello!!! I live in the real America!” As if someone could actually lay claim to that. But, of course, that would make me just as narrow-minded as some of my colleagues. So . . . New Yorkers, yes, we can think about international law even when we are a few hours west of you, and it takes a bit longer to get to Paris. (And as I described the class trip that I led to Paris last spring as part of my international dispute resolution and tribunals seminar, even the New Yorkers had not thought of that one.) And, Milwaukeeans, go visit New York. The cabdrivers are funny, the food is awesome, and people will stop and help you when you get lost. And do more than sightsee. Note how kids in Manhattan get on the bus to go to school just like our kids. Walk through Central Park and see how daily life is actually lived. A lovely New Yorker (Mets fan) even commiserated about the Brewers and rooting for teams that did not quite live up to all of our playoff hopes!

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  1. Sean Samis

    Having visited New York on several occasions I can attest to it being a great place to visit inhabited by nice people.
    I think the reason New Yorkers seem so provincial by comparison to “the rest of us” is that “the rest of us” frequently see TV or movie plot lines placed in NYC, so we can learn a little bit about it. When’s the last time you saw a serious TV/movie plot that included Milwaukee? “Michael Clayton” did, but the story never moved outdoors. (Laverne and Shirley doesn’t count.)
    Face it: most TV shows and movies are located in a hand-full of locations. NYC is common, but Milwaukee is not. TV and movies may not be the best way to learn about distant places, but it’s better than nothing, which is what they teach about Milwaukee. Or Sioux Falls. Or . . . .
    New Yorkers don’t need to get out more, story-tellers do.

  2. Stacie Rosenzweig

    We went to New York for a few days over the summer and did just that. Bought a transit pass and just wandered around. (Kind of how I would like to do Paris next time, except nobody wanted to just wander and you would’ve killed me had I gone alone.)

    And you’re right–people are people, all over.

    We walked through Central Park, ate at a Communist soul food restaurant in Harlem, sent email from the Apple Store in Manhattan (what can I say, we’re geeks), and randomly met and ended up having dinner with a honeymooning couple from Spain.

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